Spirit + Flesh Event

Curious about how far a body ritual can take you? Join friends and seekers for a day of physical and psychic exploration with Cléo, Grin, Yossie, and Cassidy. The experience includes background info, preparatory exercises, psychic cleansing, shamanic piercing, and an energy pull ritual with live taiko drumming.


Fakir once wrote, “Intense physical sensations have long been used in rituals to achieve Ecstatic States, expanding boundaries, shifting consciousness, and enabling healing and transformation.”


Led by Cléo Dubois and Grin, Fakir’s SPIRIT + FLESH workshop explores ecstatic body rites, adapted for modern Western culture, especially for the BDSM and Body Modification communities. This community ritual is held every winter in San Francisco.

Event Details

December 2025

One Day Event

Event Cost

$350

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Event Details

The Ecstatic Workshop and Ritual begins with a group presentation, coming together, and preparatory exercises followed by shamanic piercings performed by trained professionals using sterile equipment. Participants will (optionally) receive two upper chest piercings with sharp 12-gauge needles, a cheek spear, and third eye piercing, intended to foster an altered state of awareness and energy exchange. Rhythmic breathing techniques are used for pain control, and the experience is intense but exhilarating. After piercing the ritual transitions to a guided ecstatic experience led by our exceptional drummers and experienced guides. The event concludes with a communal meal to nourish and ground participants.

Emotional preparation and aftercare are vital for this intense experience. The ritual can evoke profound emotions and heightened states that may lead to a “high” or emotional release. After the workshop, participants are encouraged to ground themselves and plan for adequate support and rest. It is essential to have a trusted friend available or to create time for self-nurturing to process the experience. Emotions may feel overwhelming, and post-ritual grounding helps reintegrate into daily life. Be gentle with yourself and prioritize self-care in the hours and days following the ritual.

Eat a hearty meal before attending. We will supply snacks and fruits during the seminar as well as water. You are welcome to bring your own. For the ceremony you will need to be bare-chested (you may wear a bra or swimsuit if preferred). Kilts, skirts, sarongs, ceremonial pants and leather pants are appropriate for the lower body for all dancers. If you have them, bring a couple of floggers for the group exercises to raise energy prior to body piercing, preferably one soft and one heavy one.

If practical, leave scabs alone overnight and rinse the area gently with saline until they fall off naturally. While post-ritual marking is minimal, some light scarring can occur.

We host our annual Spirit + Flesh event on or around the first week in December.

Sign up for the Fakir Musafar Foundation announcements Google group (link above) to receive information about the event.

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